really sad....

[lakotaprincess1]

I have the feeling that nobody is really interested
on having a real true relationship or getting to know me,
at People that would match to me
Because the people do not read my whole profile first.
They write to me,e.g.:
''I really liked your pictures and would really enjoy getting to know you''

And after a mail,or two,they want more pics of me,they tell me I'm a beautiful woman aso...
and after then I hear nothing more,
and when I inquire,Iget an email :''I think,long distant relationships never work''

It happened to me with about 10 people here
and that depress me totally and it makes me very sad:?
the world is interconnected today,a distant relationship does not mean that we could`t be together

[lakotaprincess1]

`but,I still not give up
yet to find my one and only.

[katiesan (deleted)]

`Never give up Princess. I find that most good things come when we aren't looking for them. Maybe if you look at this site as a way to socialize and not put your heart into finding love, it will be more fun.
Be patient, and thankful for what you have now, and you will see, in time a big difference!
Blessings

[violetbirch]

`Worst of all, I know how you feel. I have had two long distance relationships, and I must say the second one lasted quite a bit. But that's where the problem starts. You fall in love, desperately, and try keeping it alive by doing virtually anything for this person. It's not the distance that kills a relationship. That is but a mere obstacle you can easily overcome, if both partners want to make it happen. So people saying those things to you without even trying to give it a chance aren't worth your sadness and desperation. I have been heartbroken in the worst manner, but I don't ever regret my decisions, they have led me to where I am now. And now is the best time.
Keep your head up, and your feet firmly on the ground. It will come. )

[lakotaprincess1]

`thank you for your kind words ladies.

in my last long distance relationship with a lakota,
I thought he loves me,
he wanted to visit me in Germany and I was planning to come over
in the summertime
we wanted to go to powwows,sundance aso ..after 1 year in this relationship,
suddenly my boyfriend went to the phone
was at phone
but speak not a word to me anymore...
I later found out that he
had been married for years.
it broke my already broken heart again.
Now I'm traumatized by the whole bad experiences.
and the worst part is when I see some of the people here constantly with new profiel ;0/

[lakotaprincess1]

`Sometimes it happens
you see this one man on a photo and you feel
how the heartbeat goes higher.
then it's sad when you do not get
a really chance from this one ,because you do not live in U.S.;0(

[katiesan (deleted)]

`Yes, ladies love will come in it's own sweet time. Have patience, and time always reveals the truth. Trust your gut feeling, it's mostly always right. There are good and bad people everywhere. Don't be naive and believe everything you hear. You have to find a balance. We need to trust, but use good judgement. I think time is the only way...don't rush in getting into a relationship, and when there are red flags, that's something to really look at!
Blessings

[chosnazzy (deleted)]

Lakotaprincess, if you are dead set on getting a Lakota "prince", you probably have to move to where you have the best chances to getting one. And you most likely are going to have to learn to speak English better, as well. In the beginning, he might want to come to Germany, but he will become tired and homesick eventually. So that means if you want something longterm, you probably should start planning on moving there to live.

I have lived 11 years in Berlin, and I have discovered that not all of Germany is the same. I love Berlin, and I have never gotten homesick for the rez. But I dont really care for the rest of Germany. Bayern is beautiful but I could never live there. This is also true for me concerning the East, as well as the West. But to me, Berlin is a whole different world than the rest of Germany. But that is just me.

Good luck with your search.