Rainydaysage, 49

Looking for someone who marches to the beat of his own drum. I have been married 18 years to a man who no longer acknowledges my presence. We got together very young and we have grown in totally different directions. We are currently roommates and friendly, working together to raise our children, but there is no romance involved and I am lonely for a real relationship, companionship, a friend I can share my life with.
Now for me, I am beautiful, difficult, complex, high maintenance, fun, funny, and I love deep conversations. My passions are long talks, cooking, reading, learning, photography, writing, and exploring new forms of spirituality (not religion.) I am passionate about life, about love, just passionate in general and am looking for someone as passionate about things as I am.
As for the Native American side of things, though I look like a white girl (lol) my father's side is almost exclusively Choctaw and I have Cherokee on my mother's side as well.
I think quality of life is so much more important that quanity and I want to enjoy every bit of it. I want someone to share that with. I am not terribly picky, but I would like someone who is passionate, intelligent, sensitive and caring when its called for, and spiritual in whatever way calls to him. I want someone who is done with the bar scene and could enjoy a night on the couch, cuddling with movies. Money is not hugely important, but you should be self supporting. Oh, guess I should mention I am only in Washington cause my legal "husband" (that is getting cleared up as well by the way,) is military. I am originally from Dallas/ Fort Worth and miss my family desperately, but have moved so much with the military that location isn't hugely important if something works.
That is me in a short, flat nutshell. I look forward to hearing from you.