Penelopestar, 54

hey there HHmmm...how do you know what you are looking for? Funny how you don't know what's missing in your life until you find it. I call myself a lifetime student. I am always changing and evolving. I guess I’m looking for what everyone else is..that connection. I have been in relationships before where I thought I had that connection and it was wonderful. Funny thing about them is they usually are one sided. Seems that in a relationship one always loves the other a little more. Does it have to be that way? I really do have a good sense of humor and quick wit but I get in trouble sometimes because I tend to be too serious. So I want someone outgoing, who like to embrace the gifts in life but who isn’t a deadbeat either. I don’t like to support men. Someone who will respect the fact I’m independent but be there when I need him also. I of course will give the same. I’m the type that if I would do something for you I expect you to do it for me. Not that you have to, just that you would want to.
I travel alot and take many weekend trips..So location isn't a problem for me..is it for you?