Lvrmom, 57

I am a recently widowed mother of 3 boys (2 still at home) ages 23, 17, and 12. I am very independant,and self sufficient,I like to have someone to do things with from time to time but not someone who is clingy. Someone who knows when to go to his "mancave" and give me girl time.But someone who understands life is not a game it is a gift, to be shared on a daily basis and not taken at any time for granted.From the smallest things to the greatest things.When I love someone I love them all the way or not at all.Time is too short to waste your time or mine,and words and emotions are far too precious to me.I would like someone who is somewhat disciplined and can appreciate structure.But still has a sense of adventure and spontanousnous about them.If you can sing or play music this is a major step in the right direction. I need some one who is God fearing as well this is a must. No smokers please no drinkers need apply.I would like to start out chatting and see what developes from there.(smile)