Kaila1, 40

Some of my hobbies are exercising, dancing, hiking, swimming, volunteering, and gardening. I would love to travel and see more of the world. Fitness and eating healthy are a part of my life.

I am an easy-going, sweet girl who comes from a biracial background. I am half black and half white and appreciate that I grew up with many ethnically diverse friends. I see myself as someone who is open for adventures, enjoys the simple things in life, who loves to laugh and be around friends, and has a good heart.

I like a lot of different kinds of music: R&B - ex. Ryan Leslie and Amerie , Hiphop - ex. N.E.R.D especially P. Williams lol, Old School - ex. Shaka Khan and Stevie Wonder, Alternative - ex. The Red Hot Chili Peppers, Reggae - ex. The Underground Roots. I am looking to date, but also meet good friends along the way.

"Love makes the world go round". What is it each of us are really looking for on this site and various other dating sites? Some say just friends, dating but nothing serious, relationships, etc. I believe that there is someone out there for everyone. But why is it so hard for most people to find it? Are we all too picky? Always looking for someone better? Too busy to invest time in a meaningful relationship? There's too many reasons.
Looks unfortunately play a role in being attracted to someone, even though it's personality, compatibility, and compromise that help determine the longevity of a relationship. Once we find that person we can't live without or they find us, it's a magical feeling of joy, love, happiness, and companionship, which will always be tested and has to be worked at to keep it going. I do feel that as long as your happy and confident with yourself, giving and kind to others, you will attract. Is it better to settle and be unhappy or be single and love your life?? Maybe I'm just thinking too much lol, maybe I should just go with the flow. So what are your thoughts on love and relationships?