Justlook4now72, 49

Growing with understanding, and understand that you are learning and grow. This one thing must be apparent; Respect is Learned, Earned and Returned. Without this foundation, you are just a walking garbage can of others dispositive hurt, leaving a trail of brokenness and unconsciously unaware (think about this a moment).

If you are wise enough to understand that, then the remedy is time out, unwind, reflect, live a little, and restore a lot. The pass was, the present is and the future still belongs to what “YOU” choose it to be.

If you emerge, from your sabbatical bitter then the first part applies. Experiences are not always comfortable, but necessary, so if you are bitter, then get better with it. If you are going through life believing you can avoid bad experiences, then you have not given up your indolent (slow to develop) stage (need I say more).

The only time you should visit the bone yard of the pass is to aid some suffering soul to move on and it should be the next step up toward your evolution in your maturity (each one teach one). One positive creates another positive, while a negative destroys everything, even themselves. If you are going to give something, give what you would like someone to give you from their maturity. When you give positively you keep building your wisdom, maturity, and understanding, but if you give negatively, you reinforces your bitterness. Have you ever wonder about that old man or woman that lived in you block, why are they so bitter and nasty? Now you know why. Give good gifts and good gifts will come back, give evil gifts and evil and bitterness remain.