Hade1969, 55

Just a simple man I'm a simple man who is looking to meet new people. I am very dedicated to my children, anyone I talk to needs to understand that my kids will always come first. Now that the heavy stuff is out of the way I can focus on what one should know about me.

I love music and I don't mean I like listening to music, I actually love the process of making and digesting music. At one time I was co-owner of an independent record label and had the privilege of working in the studio with artists. I used to play the saxophone myself but wouldn't know how to play it now to save my life.

I like the usual alpha male crap bikes, cars...but am also very sensitive. Should I admit that here? I grew up as a punk biker kid and now am a sheep leading manager, go figure. I have always fancied myself as a free spirit but now realize that everybody is a free spirit. I don't like labels or stereotypes. I'm ex military but don't have delusions that I'm still fighting some freakin' war.

I don’t like talking about myself but realize that it is important for me to convey who I am. I was raised on the fringes of conservative but am now liberal. I believe in doing the right thing no matter what the cost. I want to be a man of true substance and don’t mind being told when I’m off base. I’m passionate about what I do and I always want to do well at it. I’m not married to my job but I want to be the best I can at it. I think I have a wicked humor and can find the lighter side of most situations.