| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| Author |
Message |
jodyne
jodyne
Joined:
February 22, 2010
Posts: 8
|
 Posted: Post subject: (After Loss of relationship..) I would want you to know... |
|
|
I would want to know...
... Why the silence came between us?
... Why the relationship slipped away?
I would want to know...
... If you knew how badly I was hurt
by the silence that came from you..
and having you give up on our relationship;
my heart really does ache.
I would want to know...
... what could be done to prevent such a thing from happening again?
I want you to know...
... I was totally confused about what happened and continues to effect our relationship.
... That I've never meant any harm or hurt.
... And that I am sorry for my part that caused misunderstanding and any pain although it is unclear to me what that was exactly.
(And if we pursue relations again...
... How can we protect ourselves and our relationship?
... What will you do to protect me and show me you care?
... What can I do to protect and respect you and show you I always cared?)
I don't expect perfect answers but an honest effort
to try to understand
what happened [and for us]
to try to understand
each our different ways..
And for love to override and cover
the multitude of mistakes, misunderstandings, fears and any 'sin'.
It's the heart reaching out, each doing our best, and
looking out for the other that brings such joy to our souls.
Jodyne |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
facelesssmile
(deleted)
|
![]() Posted: Post subject: |
|
|
`Loss of a relationship can happen so many ways. To figure out the reasons can be a personal journey pertaining to that particulat break-up. I see it as this (my personal opinion only): We are joining two completely different lives hoping to blend thoughts, activities, interests, issues, emotions, wants, desires, and dreams (to name a few) into a single life. We are strangers until we breath no more. It is the capacity of compromise, communication, and understanding that helps us see the bigger picture as it develops from day to day within a shared life. It is usually the big picture that goes un-noticed. All we can do is try to understand and gain knowledge from experience to progress to a new adventure. That is just my thought. And yes, I know this posting is old.
|
|
| Back to top |
|
|
|
