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trubblemaka
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what will you differently today? if you do the same ole thing and wonder why your life isn't experiencing better quality, try switching things up a little. if you are unhappy in the place you are in or the relationship you're in maybe its time to do something about that. today is the beginning of a brand new week. maybe the best week of your life. take control on your situation and live life. dont let life live you.
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trubblemaka
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`look at what you want and what you know you deserve out of life. if you are in a situation where you are not respected and cherished, are you allowing this to happen by not taking control of your environment and surroundings. i hear excuses like where will i go and what will i do. i have been in some bad places and trust me the alternative is always better. better than physical, emotional , emotional and spiritual abuse. no one has the right to call you out your name or put their hands on you out of anger. you are the cultivators of our young ones and should be cherished and loved in a manner that reflects on our beliefs and traditions. times have changed and no longer are we stuck in the times of old. but at the same time we men should love and honor women and treat them as our mothers and grandmothers would see us. i know not every relationship is perfect and if you are caught up in one where you are not loved and cherished in a manner that is accpetable to you. it is time to get out. and move on and demand better treatment. becauss you deserve it. never let anyone tell you different. i am not a perfect man nor have i been in perfect relationships. but who is perfect? it all comes down to what you expect, not what you are willing to live with. this kind of thinking process is what allows us to settle with less than we deserve and this will never keep us happy. cherish the day. its monday and today you can start fresh knowing you command respect and deserve the best. i wish all of you happiness on a level that is unpararell to anything you have ever felt. if you are already there. god bless you. for some of us have not yet achieved that warmth and comforting stae of grace yet. if you know someone that is in a situation that is unsafe and is being abused today is your chance to show them that you love and care for them and to let them it is ok to expect more.
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harmony68
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`thank you so much for posting this. i have struggled so many years with everything you write about. being beat the crap out of, disrespected, told i was nothing, stepped on like nothing, walked over like nothing. i am someone! i am my childrens mother, my grandchildrens grandmother... my mothers daughter. i will not accept being treated like a fool or looked down on. or thought of - like, aww well, she don't know, what will it hurt? that, to me, is F&*(ed up. respect is first and foremost to me. i dont put up with b/s and i only give a person a few chances to make it right, then they are gone and forgotten. has to be, i will not be weighed down by someone elses perception of who i am and who i am supposed to be to him... cause as you know, i am me.
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harmony68
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`and again trub, you have raised a thought provoking subject. retrospection and self evaluation of what we feel we DESERVE in our lives and we ACCEPT are two seperate things often times. we should not accept anything below what we are offering. if we are giving all of ourselves to a situation, why the ---- are we ok with accepting half assed crap? doesn't make sense to me. and yet, i do it sometimes, and then i'm all, i did what?! oh hell no! kick myself in the ass!
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kaskiyeh
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`Good words Trubb. I have always said I would rather be alone then in a relationship that is full of misery and pain, but I am open to try new things, because I never want to go through life saying WHAT IF!!!!Good to see you back Trubb.
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harmony68
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`what ifs are always bad to have to say kaskiyeh. pain of the aftermath is bad as well... kinda have to weigh it all, you know? but its worth the risk, has been to me. have met some really cool people.
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trubblemaka
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`today is a new day and a time to think about what you have, what you want, and what you are willing to do to make that happen. we spend alot of time thinkin about it if it were to present it self to us how we would react. sometimes we spend so much time in thought instead of action we dont even realize what happened till it came by passin. its hard to know what is really good for us even when its right in our face, but without goin down that path and taking a chance at something new we'll never know just how it would've turned out. today be free, feel freely, dont over think the simple feelings presented to you. i promise feelings will never hurt you. but acting on those feelings is the gamble that plagues our very existance. are you the safe one or the gambler? have a great day!
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harmony68
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`i was safe for a long time, tired of that avenue. having feelings hurts emensely. stepping out of our comfort zone and walking the walk of chances is heart stopping. but i dont want to be 50 and wonder.
have a great day trub!
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trubblemaka
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`today i think about all the haters and negative people that have come into my life at one time or another. i have never spent alot of time worrying about peoples perceptions of me but alot of people have spent an immense effort in slandering my name and saying negative things about me. sometimes when all we hear is negative and all we see is people out there sayin this or that and other peoples perception of us begins to change. it becomes very difficult to ignore this and after being told you aint s--- or are worthless and being ran all over long enough even the strongest of people start to become lost in this. sometimes being told one thing and being treated a way for so long we start to lose sight of the fact that we deserve better. its not what we expect, its what is owed to us as good people who love and cherish our friendships and look after the people we care about. it is something any good person would love to give to us. this is how things are. not how they should be. these people are out there, but sometimes we lived under that funk so long we dont believe this anymore. you hold your fate and your destiny in your own hands and if you have let go of it, today is your day to take it back. never let what people say about you define you. you are the caretaker of your own definition. people will hate and try to bring you down. recognize this and the fact that you have the power to change this, you and the perception of you. have a great day!
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harmony68
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`i read this today... good friends are like angels you don't have to see them to know they are there.
smile! you deserve the best always
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