Can you define Sexy and is it enough?

[zene (deleted)]

Greetings - I see all these posts on here asking if Native American men and women are sexy. Interesting that it should be a major concern.

I mean, what is sexy? Can you define sexy? Will being sexy be enough to make the relationship work? Isn't it all a perception? What is sexy to you isn't sexy to me?

There is so much more to a person... the whole person! That whole includes sexy, intelligence, personality, honor, dedication, loyalty, style, mannerisms, and such. Right or nah?

cheerio,
-z-

[kaskiyeh (deleted)]

`Sexy?? To me it's a man with a job, that didn't just come out of prison and doesn't have 15 outside children THAT HE KNOWS OF...H.B.I.C.

[anewmoon]

`umhhh....ya, to me sexiness is how secure that guy feels after being in prison, while he's looking for a job and supporting all his children with...moral standards, lol... being sexy is loving yourself according to the situation...

[kaskiyeh (deleted)]

anewmoon wrote: `umhhh....ya, to me sexiness is how secure that guy feels after being in prison, while he's looking for a job and supporting all his children with...moral standards, lol... being sexy is loving yourself according to the situation...

Good answer

[rblyl (deleted)]

`someone who dosent take themselves TOO seriously. the ability to laugh.

[kaskiyeh (deleted)]

`Well he can have a sense of humor, and not take life too seriously, but if he doesn't have a job he can beat feet!!

[anewmoon]

`soo... if I was a holy man, a monk, maybe shaman... basically employ'd by the lord of All Things, let's just say God, If my JOB was to pray, sing and eat, shake my turtle, burn leaves and chant, survive from the pitence and generousity of others.... would I still be sexy to the women...
which is more sexy... faith or moneys???

and I may have pluck'd each hair from my body or given up combing and cutting my hair for decades....

[jaderivers]

`What concerns me about when people say natives are sexy is that they are not taking into consideration that we are people too.. I know a lot of my non-native friends always say native men are sexy because they have long hair and strong builds.. But each time I hear that I literally get nauseated. Then I look to myself and my native sisters and wonder if men think the same of us.. I worry sometimes that the definition of sexy is to superficial. If another woman asks to touch my father's or brother's hair when we're out at ceremony I swear its going to be a throw down! LOL

For me sexy is one who is confident in themselves, who maintains their traditions, fights for their family and community, speaks their native language or who is learning, ect. It has nothing to do with one's outer beauty.

[jaderivers]

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[rblyl (deleted)]

`not much one can do about anothers preferences...works both ways a lot. Personally, hairy isnt sexy. and even if they are spiritual..a bath is important too. but then again..I thought the character Early Grace in the movie Kalifornia was pretty hot at one time in my life and most women would be (rightly) mortified by him. sooooo??? depends I guess..

[rblyl (deleted)]

`p/s: bath, yes..but manicured nails, 'dippity-do' in the hair, and any guy who spends more time in the mirror getting ready that I do is not sexy to me...men have to be a bit more RAW to get my attention.

(remember..just personal preference..not gospel)

[trubblemaka (deleted)]

`have you seen my profile pic? thats sexy....lol im so pretty~~~

[rblyl (deleted)]

`oh soo purrrty!

[jaderivers]

trubblemaka wrote: `have you seen my profile pic? thats sexy....lol im so pretty~~~



LOL.. confidence.. way sexy! :lol:

[trubblemaka (deleted)]

`lol im jus a lil speshul i guess...