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Posted: Post subject: The Internet Roach Motel |
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I never understood why many women, smart women, when faced with a cheater will blame the girl or girls hes cheating with. Maybe its some short-circuit in our hard-wiring. Like, Gee, my man is emailing somebody else and that is¦hmm¦the fault of the complete stranger who doesnt know me? Or my darling who swears he loves me but has problems keeping of the internet site? Its there fault!
He is the one with the commitment to you, not them. They are just someone who happens to be chasing after other peoples boyfriends. Frankly, those types are like roaches. You can squish one if you catch them, but there are always more. And unfortunately, your boyfriend is the roach motel.(most likely they are fed a line of b.s. too!)
Also, just where is your guy while all of these emailing negotiations are going on? If anyones going to get these chicks off his emails, its got to be him. If he were serious about his relationship with you, hed quit being such a two-timer and end it. Its my guess he likes the attention. And maybe, he likes having his girlfriend crazy all the time about what hes doing, and frankly, who hes doing.
What do you do? My advice is to dump him. You were already fighting all the time, he cheated on you, and now hes adding insults, disrespecting your feelings and keeping in contact with all his other on line romances. You deserve to be with someone you can trust, and frankly, once someone cheats on you, its pretty hard (and not too smart) to trust him again. Why make yourself crazy? Theres someone out there who will love, adore and respect you, who will not screw around. Find that guy, hes a lot more fun. And check yourself out of the roach motel.
N.W.A.A.
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