What am I thinking?

[lakotarose]

I have this bestfriend and when we met I was in a relationship and he always came over and would visit with "US" but really he was only talking to me. The relationship I was in is over and while truthfully it was over in my heart the moment I met the friend. I don't want to pursue him cause well that just isn't my style. He doesn't date or have girlfriends he's a single dad and he doesn't want to expose his son to a bunch of different women. Understandable I have these feelings for him and I don't want things to change right now but the feelings are still there like no matter what I do I have to fight them when ever he is around. I don't want him to think I am on the rebound or that I just see him like the other women do. I'm a mess!

[lakotarose]

`Plus I am practicing complete abstinence right now and that makes it worse!

[phoenixwarrior]

`A person who is in abstinence, that might make your body go crazy someday and you don't want todo that. Maybe deep down inside you do, too bad about your friend and do remember that you only live once. I never did likestyletoomuch and rebounds either.

[lakotarose]

`Well it turns out that the feelings are mutual, we have talked about them, but we aren't ready for a relationship. So for now just knowing we are on the same page is enough. I don't want to be just another pretty face, and he doesn't want to be another ship in the night, so were just taking this time to honor ourselves and letting nature run the show. We aren't going anywhere and we do love one another, but why rush things. He's important to me but my sobriety comes first.

[blkfootsuprise7]

`Good GuRL!Stand on yur Principal'z...but if he doesn't want his son exposed to Racy women running in and out the house,let him visit U,only if U make it perfectly clear that he is only allowed to date or meet outside yur house,as it's only fair 2 U. and just have fun with it. If he want's 2 get serious one day lay down the law that if the relationship is to grow than other members of his family are going 2 have to get 2 know U. (some men do that, so U won't see girl #2 at his house.)or take 4 month's and enjoy yur freedom to date who you think is right 4 U(preferably non-violent/thuggish/CRiM-Rec.). As "P.W." above said " you only live once,so take time 2 get over yur old boyfriend,or you might slide into a regretable Rebound relationship,I've done it many times myself.
Ejay Mongooz7 "single 8 1/2 yr celebite, 3 teens from 9 yr. bAd~relationship".