IF YOU MET SOMEONE ON NAP WOULD YOU DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT?

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

rosesandwine2, I guess people might or might not respect your space on this topic depending on who they are. It's just no ones business and if they get pushy with wanting info. thats not in your comfort zone just run.

whether it's worth it or not will be entirely up to you. But, why not?

Life is short. I am well aware of that. And even "perfect" (if there is such a thing) circumstances will have it's own unique challenges. This is all just a personal opinion of mine though. I would like to see you stay! Why not?

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`If you could see me now.
The one who said that she would rather roam
The one that said she would rather be alone
If you could only see me now

If I could hold you now
Just for a moment I could really make you mine
Just for awhile turn back the hands of time
If I could only hold you now

I've been too long in the wind too long in the rain
Take any comfort that I can
Looking back and hoping for a freedom from my chains
And Lie in your loving arms again

If you could hear me now
Singing somewhere through the lonely night
Dreaming of the arms that held me tight
If you could only hear me now...


(JUST A THOUGHT)

YOU NEVER SHOULD HAVE TO TEST TRUE LOVE, IF YOU NEED TO TEST THE OTHER PERSON GUESS YOU DON'T NEED TO BE THERE!!
N.W.A.A.

[rosesandwine2_PREV (deleted)]

`Huggeroftrees, that was simply beautiful. It would describe me to the core. When I read it, I wondered...does she know me? How strange as this is the internet!!
I will give this site a go, even if it is just for finding people like you, rebelyell08, and blackfootedgirl....and many others that I have not mentioned. It is people like you that gives a person the "want" to give it a try!! Thanks to you, Huggeroftrees.
And rebelyell08, your words are not forgotten. I will try the "why not"!! What have I got to lose?!!! Besides, the forums are fun, informational, serious, humorous and a way to connect to internet friends.

[johnmarlon (deleted)]

huggeroftrees wrote:
(JUST A THOUGHT)

YOU NEVER SHOULD HAVE TO TEST TRUE LOVE, IF YOU NEED TO TEST THE OTHER PERSON GUESS YOU DON'T NEED TO BE THERE!!
N.W.A.A.




I can understand what youre saying; the topic isn't really referring to true love though. I personally don't believe true love can exist across the internet, thats my belief though. I think the presence of anothers body language within your own presence is a key factor in truly knowing a person.


Quote: In all reality it would be easier to test their trust if they still have their account here.

My statement aims towards an example, although I know it's been quoted. I guess I aimed it towards those people that ask for deletion out of insecurity. If they felt the need to ask for a deletion because of possible temptations, then they could easily assess the other's temptation if that person still has an account. I won't say how because it's probably against the sites rules.

I just thought since I've been quoted I might as well throw out a few more thoughts on the subject and sum up what I meant.

[rosesandwine2_PREV (deleted)]

`Johnmarlon, how could a person know if the other we being "tempted"? Should they rely solely on what the other is saying? I know trust is a big part of a relationship, but so is truth. So, if the tell you that they are not tempted by another, do you just believe and hope your gut is not off that day? Sometimes our feelings are clouded by love or other strong emotions, so it is hard to say that you should trust your "gut feeling". So, I guess that you should just trust them and hope for the best?

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`uh..yes?I think?

I respect what Johnmarlon has to say here, he brings a lot of wisdom into the forum. And I used to say what he said exactly..especially about the importance of body language. But (and please excuse sentimentality, I guess) how do we define "true love"? It may change as we change,or not, one way or another. Yes, totally agree on the importance of body language. But what about the language if spirit, soul? Or kindred feelings even..a sharing with others that reaches beyond the physical? Brief example, I have a friend..lives an ocean away, never met her face to face..but I can sit here and say right now she is a beloved friend to me. In my heart I love her as a person. Some people, not all, you can FEEL..not everyday by any means..it does happen, in a good way and not. You just FEEL who they are. So...take it for what it's worth. One opinion out of many valid ones. But I feel if I lost my eyesight tomorrow it would not have any impact on my ability to love..unless I was angry over losing my eyesight that is.

Hey, Huggeroftrees! Whats with the poem!!!man.

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[quote="rebelyell08"]

I respect what Johnmarlon has to say here, he brings a lot of wisdom into the forum.

I enjoy reading Johnmarlon's post he's a wise old soul in a very young body. He is one of a kind...




I don't know was a moment of me remembering or
must have BEEN breathing too many gas fumes yesterday...

A PASSING THOUGHT !!(I do have them) omg help me!!
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.

[rosesandwine2_PREV (deleted)]

`Body language...and spirit. Both make a difference; but, does the physical have to outweigh everything else. I can understand what you mean about the spiritual connection as I have a few of those myself. But, if you love someone, shouldn't it be that nothing else matters. I was in a relationship with a man, and loved him dearly, who was bound to a wheelchair due to his illness. When we initially started communicating, I did not know that he was disabled. When we did meet, nothing else mattered. I still loved him as much as I did before we met. His physical self did not matter to me. He worked in another hospital that we were affiliated with and we had many dealing with one another via the phone and computer concerning our patients. He was wonderful; but, he decided that I needed a man that could be everything that I needed. I wanted him, not another man. Still, he had a problem with his physical disabilities.
Geez, that was a lot of information. I guess what I am getting at is ...the physical should not matter. Only the love shared should matter and nothing else.

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`okay Rosesandwine2..I thought about what you just had to say. I am sorry to hear of your friend in the wheelchair feeling that way about himself. As I said, the blindness (if I was) wouldnt stop me from loving unless I was angry about being blind (but I know this statement for myself in other ways-I'm a work in progress...bla..bla..) Anyway but about why looks are just so dang important..and I will only say this cause I see you are pretty..and I DO wince as I say it cause I may get my head bit off here (I AM ONLY speaking what I have noticed not speaking for anyone or GROUP) but men are...visual. I truly believe looks dont matter to you..I totally understand, me too. But fact is men are just visual..they love the way women LOOK. They love the way we move, they love the curvatures of women, the presence, they love the thoughts they have when they watch a woman move doing just about anything, they love that our skin is soft and thinking about things like that, they seem to notice things I never think about..being a woman..and unless gay, they crave women. I had a male friend tell me, when I was whining about this once, that I could go put on a SACK and it wouldnt make a difference (cause I said I was only wearing sweats from now on.., you know)So that thought can make one disgusted, say call men "shallow", or we CAN enjoy it? Women are created beautiful for a reason. My take on this anyway, after giving it some thought.

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`rosesandwine2, I just recieved your email and for reasons I wont state here I cannot return an email from my account at this time..I will say, I am sorry you seem to have such an experience SO soon. I do not know the ones involved and have no advise to give on these things anyway. Relationships should be a private matter, and there is only drama when you involve others ( I am sure you have learned that yourself so I need not explain here.)My strong suggestion to you is to let what you are holding onto go..before you hurt others and get hurt yourself. I wont comment anymore on this.

[rosesandwine2_PREV (deleted)]

`Thanks, rebelyell08. I respect your position on this matter and ... no more need to said. But, thanks again for being such a strong person.

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rebelyell08 wrote: `rosesandwine2, I just recieved your email and for reasons I wont state here I cannot return an email from my account at this time..I will say, I am sorry you seem to have such an experience SO soon. I do not know the ones involved and have no advise to give on these things anyway. Relationships should be a private matter, and there is only drama when you involve others ( I am sure you have learned that yourself so I need not explain here.)My strong suggestion to you is to let what you are holding onto go..before you hurt others and get hurt yourself. I wont comment anymore on this.





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[johnmarlon (deleted)]

I believe that our spirit is intertwined with our physical self; sure it reaches out and touches people but I think two spirits must be brought together in their physical in order to really experience the entirety of each other. It's understandable how this glimpse of another's spirit through that reaching out can cause them to fall in love, but I believe the strength of that love isn't brought to it's fullest until those two spirits have spent time together in the physical. We do, after all, live within our physical self most of the time. I think that everything about our body language expresses a part of our spirit, and it takes time for a person to understand all the body language a person is capable of expressing. Thus, my meaning of fully getting to know a person because some people take more time to reveal themselves than others.
This leads me to conclude and think that "true love" is something built upon over time, because our physical self requires time in order to express that part of the spirit within.

There are so many levels and perceptual understandings of the concept of love depending on the person. That's what makes talk about this subject so hard, and how we can hold so many thoughts and differences in this area.

I ask hugger to please refrain from the negative tinge that I sense. I was only building off and trying to explain what I meant. If there is anything I said or expressed difference about in your thinking, I didn't mean to offend you. If I am mistaken in my perception of what I seem to pick up on, than please excuse me.

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`Really I think what you said just now Johnmarlon is just beautiful and I do understand what you mean. I think different people have different ideas about what the things that stand out to them in being able to relate to the other as thier "beloved" are, I guess (for a lack of the language for what I am trying to express anyway). But I dont think you could find many that would disagree with you here. I have seen where it is kind of sensitive on the definition of what is "real"..I think some of us are still grappling with this new kind of reality that the internet age has brought us into. Either redefining or reinforcing?ya know?

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johnmarlon wrote:

I ask hugger to please refrain from the negative tinge that I sense. I was only building off and trying to explain what I meant. If there is anything I said or expressed difference about in your thinking, I didn't mean to offend you. If I am mistaken in my perception of what I seem to pick up on, than please excuse me.

I have not a clue what you are referring too. I was only giving my thoughts on this subject