"OH MY G**D"

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

Johnmarlon you make sense..and you do have a good point.Thank you for responding. I think about it now and I suppose I would rather see who I am sure I have nothing in common with initially..who to stay away from right away- than to have Spirituality be used in a ----ograpic way..as is to intice, seduce a person. I'm sure theres people here who know what I'm talking about..nothing in paticular..just a thought

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

`either way..it's all just seduction right..

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

`Hey everyone..just found that it is the same..New American Heritage Dictionary under Seduction has this to say "..something that attracts: especially with the promise of reward of pleasure: allurement..BAIT." so it is the same..just one wears clothes and one does not...personally I am more offended by the one who wears clothes.

[ravenwoman_PREV (deleted)]

`Interesting how this topic is evolving...

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

`Hey sweetie lets continue this discussion under a new blog we'll call it "more than wolves..."

[humored0ne_PREV (deleted)]

I am young and inexperienced with the whole, dating and finding your match thing but, it seems to me that the people who are asking to see your breasts or have you act more scandelous in order to gain their interest, just aren't the men for you. There are men who want the BBD (bigger, better deal) and then there are the men who are genuinely interested in a woman and what she stands for. You obviously are looking for the ones who are very few and far apart online.

I have found many men around my age who are of the more genuine stature offline. It is easier to do so. Men online are here for ----.

I am not saying I am here for ----. Yes, I want to shuffle through the rubble and find the diamond in the rough like you but... I suppose I have lower expectations for online men. Haha Sad... but it is true.

I wish we had match makers Haha.

kai

[ravenwoman_PREV (deleted)]

`LOL well said!! I just came here for friends... then found that a lot of people would not speak to me because I had no profile... so I set one up... I am close to being single now and can actually talk to guys in more than just hi how are ya terms. I have met some genuinely nice guys online... they arent all out for ----... and those who are... can look elsewhere... LOL

[humored0ne_PREV (deleted)]

`That's pretty much where I stand, too. I am able to talk to men in a romantic sense but I have found that online, the potential men are a pin in a hay stack. I actually am going on a date tonight with a realllllyyy cute navajo hehe... im excited. My grandfather loves him so i am crossing my fingers. He is such a gentleman. *blush* *big smile*

Good luck to this girl though. Its hard. Obviously those men are not rez based or they would have more values and morals.

`kai`

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`First I'd like to say how sad it is to see Plainsgirl has left the site. She had some really great things to say, especially with this topic. She was also a very nice person. Anyway, I can't say that I was here for friends from the beginning, that I was and still am looking for a LTR. Yet sometimes it isn't what you're looking for but rather what you're not looking for that you find. I have found some really good and valued friends here. If that is all I come away with that is fine. Someone I met recently told me it's better to be alone for all the right reasons, than to be with someone for all the wrong ones. I have to say he's right. I understand what he means as I was in a relationship few years back that was wrong and dmaged almost from the get go. It was love, weakness and fear of being alone that kept me there. Though he was mentally and emotionally abusive I stayed. I knew I should have left as soon as I saw his true colors, and should it be I encounter another man abusive in any way I will do so right away. Still I was crippled by the fear of being alone and too weak to do anything about it. One day I just couldn't take it anymore. One day I decided it'll be ok if I'm alone for a while, I don't need a hurtful, toxic, and cruel person like this in my life. Not then, and not ever. Too often it seems we go for the wrong people, the ones that hurt us, are too focused on a person's face or curves, people that tear us down and leave us feeling so aweful. So we all have a flaw here or there. So we want to keep the seductive and erotic behavier as something to be shared with that one special person behind closed doors? Does that make us unworthy of finding someone? I know there are good and wonderful men out there. I hope one day to find that special one. As humored0ne says about the Rez based men haveing more values and morals. I have to say I feel she's right. Any Rez based men out there looking for good hearted kind natured and all around wonderful women:)

[dinewalking_PREV (deleted)]

`i would like to apologize to everyone. i feel responsible for plainsgirl leaving this site. she was a good & respectful person. i considered her a friend & she told me some things about her life. i tried to give her advise & help her through her troubled thoughts. but i guess some that knew her preceived more than that between her & i. so there was friction going on between her & others on this site & she did not want that. like everyone else here that met her & became friends with her, she will be missed. i have considered leaving this site also because i do not want friction in my life either. there is one person that needs to know this & as far as forgiveness goes, there is nothing to forgive.............

[humored0ne_PREV (deleted)]

`dinewalking, no one can be responsible for other peoples actions. You are not the reason she left.

I actually went on a date last night with a rezzy man. *smiles*. My brother brought him to visit me and.. I have to say, that man is veryyyyyy serious. *laughs* I don't know whether to appreciate the seriousness or to dislike it. I think that is a problem with our men. *shrugs* We will see.

I too have found some nice people to talk to on here.

`kai`

[plainsgirl01_PREV (deleted)]

`I will speak for myself....but no he is not the reason I left....

[plainsgirl01_PREV (deleted)]

`My inability to handle conflict in my personal life constructively is......I am a work in progress, as I have said before. When I reach perfection..I'll send a "post" about it.

[humored0ne_PREV (deleted)]

`Glad you have come back!

[plainsgirl01_PREV (deleted)]

`Thank you..this wasn't a big deal though...I only hit delete. But thanks, hon