be careful..people are not always what they seem

[squinto (deleted)]

We all meet people here who are not who they say they are.. I for one was talking to someone who was filling my email with words of looking for the one and only, and how he saw me and knew I was the one and so on and so on, but his sometimes girlfriend didn't like it one bit. Just another player!! He was busted, but some how seem to lie his way out of it.The strange part is she was willing to settle for being the consolation prize if things didn't work out between us, now that's sad!!!
I knew it was a big game he was playing, just was wondering how far he would go..

[merinass (deleted)]

`Wow..yeah I got hit with the soul mate thing myself..my reply was 'we'll see'. Now my opinion on soul mates is not what many would think. I do not wish to find someone from my past life..for me it is like screaming I did not learn what I needed to learn and have not moved on.
I am with you. I wondered just how far he would go myself but when he demanded...I mean demanded I go to Dallas I knew something was really up. Why do you HAVE to have me there and why..if you really felt as strongly for me as you said you did can you not wait.
The fool had me do a reading and I used my runes instead of tarot cards. The outcome for him was ISA..and it means that a person becomes frozen or locked in ice. Well with a relationship it means that the persons heart has cooled toward you..so I expected this to happen.
Still..I wonder what the urgency of getting me down there was..in my mind it just could not have been anything good.

[squinto (deleted)]

`My mama told me
A good man is hard to find,
You always get the other kind
Just when you think that he is your pal,
You look for him & find him fooling 'round some other gal

[merinass (deleted)]

`Oh yeah..and this is why I am single.

[squinto (deleted)]

`You know there is a misconception in this world that if you are considered
"pretty " nothing bad happens to you!!
I have been dumped, cheated on, lied too, kicked to the curb, you name it has been done.
When these guys come on N.P. come on to me and say I'm pretty and I can get anyone I want, I wonder where their head is at?

Lines: I've been looking for you all my life Looking for my soul mate.
I want to marry you..
You're the only woman I talk too on here..And on and on..

Last time I looked I did not have stupid across my forehead.

Need to have more going on than looks.. Looks don't last for ever!!!
I am just a female with the same problems as anyone else, I look in the mirror and just see me nothing more.One day age will hit me and I know I better have a few thoughts in my head..



REJECTION IS GODS WAY OF TELLING US, SOMETHINGS NOT GOOD FOR US.

[merinass (deleted)]

`I agree. When Both men and women talk to me, be it in real life or on the net they think because I am attractive I have no love issues. Nothing could be further from the truth. I have been through the same things that most of us have been through..then of course you have people that hate on you because you are attractive.
Looks die just like everything else. One day time marches all over your face. You get laugh lines, crows feet, your b--bs sag and butt gets jiggly..you get cellulite and gray hair. If looks were all that mattered I have to say the majority of both men and women on this site would not be here. There are genuinely many many very attractive men and women here. if we went by that..well this site would be full of unattractive people only.
Common sense indicates looks are just packaging..it isn't any sort of clue as to what lies inside.

[jaderivers]

`Glad I'm not the only one thats experienced this. I met someone on this site too and after being together for quite some time we decided to move in together. I found out later that he was hooked up with other women on different dating sites behind my back. He called to say it was just talking but he failed to realize that she and I were messaging to get the real info. I was hurt but now I'm relieved I dodged that bullet... whatever man, play on playa!