What would specific aspects of personality over all

[lily4567 (deleted)]

`yes it's true and you are right not to send photos of your body to person

[chosnazzy (deleted)]

`Loveternal, you should have sent that guy, who asked you that, a photo of your elbow LOL!!

[loveternal (deleted)]

`Yes! That is a brilliant idea!! LOL!! Or I should email them a photo of one of my nostrils

You really should read what a lot of native guys write to me. If they were REAL traditional, I do not think they would talk to women like that, even in online communication. A real man conducts himself respectfully. But most native guys on here are like "hey baby email me more pics" or "hey sweetie, let me take care of you, I know what you need". How do they know what I need when they do not even take the time to know who I am? Its sad to see most native men act so foolishly like this on this site. I do not think that is the native way, to talk to women in such a disrespectful manner.

I believe that a real man treats women the same way he treats his grandmother, mother and daughters. So you have to wonder, that when a man talks so foolishly and disrespectfully to women, he must not think highly of his grandmother, mother and daughters, as well.

[lily4567 (deleted)]

`I agree with you two lol
But do you really think they are Indian guy who wrote you this loveternal? Maybe they are white men who pose as Indian guy

[loveternal (deleted)]

Yes I believe they are really Native in their DNA, but in their hearts? NO! They are emotionally immature I think that just because someone is Native, it does not mean he is automatically a good guy. Sometimes I see profiles of non-Native women that read something like "I heard that Native men are in tune with mother earth and they respect all women, so that is what I want". And I think that is a bit on the racist side.

For example, the native guys who want me to send photos of my body parts to them, this shows they do not respect women. And that is a shame because that shows they really do not respect their daughters, mothers and grandmothers, either. And that also mean if they cannot respect any women, then how can they respect "Mother" Earth.

And if they say they respect their grandmothers and mothers, and yet they want non-Native women to send them photos of their bodies, this is very inconsistent. This also means they are not living what they believe.

For me, I do not care if a man is native. What matters most for me is that he respects himself and is honest to himself and that he loves and accepts himself for who and what he is. Because if he is not this way with himself, then naturally he will not be that way with others either. But some guys are really deceptive, too. They know what to say to impress a girl. But as we said earlier, they are only wearing a mask. So eventually, as long as you are emotionally mature, you will be able to see through his mask of deception.

But what is really important for me is that he is at peace with his past. If I know he is at peace with his past, and I kiss him, then I know he is really enjoying my kisses to fullest extent. And I have met men from different cultures who were this way. So its not the culture that is "good", it is how true does that man live his beliefs.

Just like in every culture, there are nice native men and not-nice ones, too.