Sharing the rest of your life with someone

[wolfwarrior (deleted)]

Is it so wrong to want to share the rest of your life with someone special and cherish them for the love they show you every day?

I really begin to wonder. I find myself losing hope that I will find someone to love unconditionally and to be loved likewise. Maybe my ideas of love are outdated. Maybe nobody really loves unconditionally, be supportive, be romantic in word and deed and most importantly to walk side by side on your path.

I guess being alone wont be so bad. I think my heart has had more than its fair share of being broken, beaten and abused.

[enjoyliving247 (deleted)]

`Hi Wolfwarrior....I only want to tell u...don't give up hope.There are still woman in the world which wants one unconditionally love..and support..and wants a romantic guy.U just cant plan love...love comes when u dont expect it..It surrounds you and lift you from the bottom.To share the rest of the life with someone is the truth idea of one relationship where two people love each other.In Russia we say for every pot is always the right cover..which fits perfect.Just be patient..wait and watch it coming.I wish u good luck for the search
Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.

[wolfwarrior (deleted)]

`Its hard to keep faith when I seem to attract not very nice girls who pretend to be nice. I've been taken advantage of so many times, I have lost count. The last one caused me to live in a homeless shelter because I moved with her to Missouri so she could be near her dad who had bladder cancer. We struggled to find a place of our own because a family member of hers said they would take us in and then 9 days later dropped us off at a homeless shelter. I had gotten job with St. Louis Zoo which i loved working there. But wasn't able to keep because we couldn't get an apartment. So many places helped us as best they could. It came down to her leaving me when I went out to do laundry for us. It took a while to get back home and here I am living in a shelter while going to community college.

The best one was a girl I met on here...we fell deeply in love and then one day she decided to pretend to be one of her kids texting me that she was hit by a drunk driver and was in the hospital. 3 days later she texted that she died. I was at work at time that came to me. I lost it. They had to send me home because I was a wreck. I walked all the way home and stopped at a bridge and for a moment considered suicide. But I didn't. 5 months later I get a text and its her pretending to be a twin sister. For some dumb reason I dated what I thought was her twin sister. She claimed to have problems and needed to leave the state she was in. I talked her into coming to where I was.

That was a big mistake. She wrecked my relationship with my adopted mom. Used me for whatever she could. I come to find out she was dating another guy on facebook not even a month after she broke me heart after coming to where I lived.

So as you can see, I am too nice for my own good. I am a living breathing doormat.

All I want is to find someone that isn't crazy, is as nice as me and can be trusted. Looks mean nothing to me. Personality and trust are the two most important thing to me.

[enjoyliving247 (deleted)]

`Wow...sorry to hear about the experiences u had wolfworrior.A lot of bad things happened to you.I don't know how you think about it..but I believe in the power on attraction.If one person got a bad experience..it can happen that you unconsciously
has the feeling that the next time you will meet again a woman like that.It works like a magnet..u attract the same type of women.Try to think possitive!Think the right woman is waiting for me ..sounds silly..but if u will change your thoughts..you will change your life..this is what I learnt I like the last words of ur comment,about that personality and trust is the most important for you.Trust..Respect..Love is the foundation for a good working..long lasting and healthy relationship.If one of them isn't there,then it will be sooner or later the death.My granny told me once some wise words..she said don't run looking for a perfect looking guy..cause when we're old we all look the same..but the life you have to spend with the character of your partner Anyways I hope you will find the right woman.Just believe :)

[wolfwarrior (deleted)]

`thank you