Ever been stood up??

[shewolfe (deleted)]

Sometimes i think going on a dating site is a bad idea at times, i've on two other dating sites for the past year or a bit more and i've been stood up 3 times by 3 differnt guys. What is really messed up is they asked me out each of them and we made plans to go out and everything and then in the end it has not happend,i didn't even get a response as of why or "sorry i'm not interested" i appreciate honesty from a person. this has made me feel rejected Has anyone else went through this?

[avvaa05]

`I think sometimes blessings come in disguise. Trust in the universe. Find gratitude in that if it is a foreshadow of character you at least learned without becoming tangled emotionally or otherwise.
Don't claim it and feel negatively for it. That sort of things only says something of the person lacking the character necessary to offer even the very basic in courtesy and nothing of the innocent party they left hanging.
Keep shining! :)

[shewolfe (deleted)]

`thank you for the advice!

[bearjoe (deleted)]

`yes. i have been stood up also, a number of times. Yes it sucks so bad too, theres nothing worse then just being left hanging, wondering what the hell is going on, and its easy to take it personally, but i also have to agree with avvaa05. The people doing the standing up just simply are not worth the stress. They are the ones that could potentially be missing out on the best thing in their lives. not the other way around. Bye standing you up, they are just showing how weak they really are, with out the courage to even be honest. these are not the ppl you want in your life.
Stay true to yourself, keep your chin up and smile.