Why are Native men so sexy? Really...

[mikmaqprincess (deleted)]

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[mikmaqprincess (deleted)]

mimi07c wrote: firstlastalways wrote: While I was trying to think of something typically-pervy of me to say about hooking me up with a guy then, I actually had an idea. I wonder if it'd be a good idea to get like a penpals paper/zine going in reservations so they can reach out to the outside world a little bit more? Idk but I come from a small town and I'm old enough to be from the time before the internet, and I met people through little zines that were advertised in metal magazines.



That would be awesome a Native American Reservation Penpal. I actually want to go to a reservation this summer since mines is so far away.



And where is your reservation again? Does South American indians even have reservations? Whats the name of your tribe???

[seanachi]

I find a resonance with the main message of Running Wolf and Merry, and
add that personality/character should be a major attraction for friendship
or relationship criteria, not stereotype standards set by shallow people.

On a personal perspective~ many Native men have a strong spiritual
presence, as well as incredible hair/emotive eyes that sets them apart
as especially sexy

( What has been wrote... )
runningwolf wrote:
hate to break it to you ladies but it has nothing to do with your nationalitly. and yeah i am 6'4" but i know a lot more short natives than tall ones. i think the movies and trashy romance novels have led everyone to believe all natives are mysterious and romantic and all that crap. the truth is yes we have a different culture and different features but we are still human. and like any culture some of us are good some are bad, some are attractive some arent, and some follow the old ways and some are more white than the whites. quit putting stereotypes on people and enjoy your life and fall in love with who ever makes you happy.



Those movies and books have alot to answer for don't they? I'm english and only know 1 native american man as we don't really get them here unfortunately. He's apache, a shaman and although he follows the old ways in his work, he lives here and so is sort of half traditional and half modern. He's a small guy too, so doesn't fit the stereotype there either. These stereotypes do no good for anyone and those of us that don't fit the 'norm' tend to get a really bad deal.

I do have to agree though, native men are very handsome but I feel it has alot to do with their manner and approach to life, rather than just looks than makes them attractive. The normal english male is so materially minded and has no spiritual awareness at all, which puts me right off.

LIVE THE journey, FOR EVERY DESTINATION IS BUT A DOORWAY TO ANOTHER! :!:

[redragdoll (deleted)]

I feel like a bird when I go to a pow wow.

Not even kidding. The crazier the dance, the bigger the feathers, the flashier the attire, the more I'm going to want to pounce on them.
Doesn't that sound like a bird watching for the flashiest male? haha

[km30]

Because there is something sooo sexy about your native roots, Your culture, beliefs.. And dang they way you look! You all are truly they most beautiful group of people in the world! That's just my opinion!

[summerstorm78 (deleted)]

`I find this thread disturbing if not insulting. I've read each and every post here to date, and have found it real hard not to say anything, but enough is enough. For those of you who say "it's in the eye of the beholder" thank you for your realistic views. This is true of any person where attractivness is concerned NOT just a certain ethnic or cultural background.

To be perfectly honest, if i were a man (Native or in general) reading this I'd be making a list of all the unrealistic ppl here who view Natives as nothing more than a grade A prime cut of meat. Gentlemen, if you're into dinner & a movie (most likely hollywood version!) I'd say you've found your target group!

For the most part, these views are the result of (yes!) stereotypes and unrealistic protrayals of our Native men/women. If you are really that interested, why not educate yourself? Do some research and make damn sure you're reading authentic material, not some hollywood version of damsel in distress.

Natives face racism and are snubbed even to this day, and there are only a handful of "outsiders" (so to speak) that appreciate their part in our history. Oppression is still a very real thing even today. The dignity of these ppl DEMAND respect. All I am saying is if you are going to be a part of that open-minded group, do so for the right reasons!

[cottonwood (deleted)]

`Oh geezh, gals, go get a zoo ticket, lots of panthera pardus to find - even with black coats

[lx1987 (deleted)]

Long hair looks good on any man, but a long haired native is sexy.

[eveningson (deleted)]

All of the native people I have known, and I mean all of them,men or women, sioux or apache, have a different sense of talking or acting that is at once open, hidden, sly and most often humourous. Like the chief (Dan George) in the movie little big man who says "this is a good day to die" and the drop of rain falls on his face and he goes back into his tent to his eye turning wife. It is cultural for me since i grew up this way.... The reaching out to others is done by humour or double meaning and I suppose a way to get a more honest response from the other. Conversation becomes a game. Women seem to find this sexy for the Indian man is the perpetual flirt. Watch an eighty year old chuckling elder turn a primal beauty, Indian or not into someone else..... Watch out when something very serious is said. Wait a while and more often then not the teller will break out into a smile and you will know that you have been had in a nice warm way.

To deal with those situations where this is not so, what one says is "that one is not an indian" even though he is the chief of the tribe.

eveningson...

[nokomis91]

`Personally I believe it has nothing to do with nationality...nor appearance. Being sexy for either man or women is having a good head on their shoulders. Someone that's wise, someone that is confident but yet not conceited. I think sexy is when someone carries themselves in a respectful and classy manner.

Ex: You see a women walking down the street..wearing close to nothing. Now you think to yourself..could i take this women home to meet my parents. Could I trust her..she obviously doesn't care about her appearance and how she portrays herself. (Now is that sexy to you?...Someone that doesn't respect themselves?)

How about a lady...that dresses classy..but yet she has her times when she can be enticing and seductive..but behind close doors. A women or man that isn't begging for attention but doesn't mind when it's given.

It goes both ways for both genders. Sexy to me isnt appearance. It is how you carry yourself.

[jezpur]

summerstorm78 wrote: `I find this thread disturbing if not insulting. I've read each and every post here to date, and have found it real hard not to say anything, but enough is enough. For those of you who say "it's in the eye of the beholder" thank you for your realistic views. This is true of any person where attractivness is concerned NOT just a certain ethnic or cultural background.

To be perfectly honest, if i were a man (Native or in general) reading this I'd be making a list of all the unrealistic ppl here who view Natives as nothing more than a grade A prime cut of meat. Gentlemen, if you're into dinner & a movie (most likely hollywood version!) I'd say you've found your target group!

For the most part, these views are the result of (yes!) stereotypes and unrealistic protrayals of our Native men/women. If you are really that interested, why not educate yourself? Do some research and make damn sure you're reading authentic material, not some hollywood version of damsel in distress.

Natives face racism and are snubbed even to this day, and there are only a handful of "outsiders" (so to speak) that appreciate their part in our history. Oppression is still a very real thing even today. The dignity of these ppl DEMAND respect. All I am saying is if you are going to be a part of that open-minded group, do so for the right reasons!





I have to agree with summerstorm on alot of things she said and she is correct. Learning all about someone you are or may be attracted to is very important. Sorry in advance for the rambling but I just think it's a shame that people stay so divided and lack understanding on many levels. You started out with a blog on what makes a native man sexy and it has become a drama filled saga. But I also think like with any nationality, say for example Italian men or women if there was a blog on that I am sure we could all tastefully mention what we like about them and could be anything from, olive skin to great food, accent, or whatever... Doesn't mean I am hunting for a piece of meat ;p or looking to score, sometimes it just nice to meet and appreciate others physically, and experience different backgrounds and gain knowledge from another's perspective or if you feel your upbringing is similar. And there's nothing wrong with either by the way! Everything about each nationality as a whole is what makes you different, and attractive. That is what makes us all unique.
Most people seem to be physically attracted to what is opposite them. And yes looks aren't everything. But we are all human and yes it has something to do with it, lol. I don't think this topic was to find out who want rights to live on a reservation or how poor someone is or isn't. It really should be to celebrate peoples differences and being that they may be similar or different to you is what you think is attractive. If someone complimented me on my Irish red hair and light skin I wouldn't take that as an insult. I take it as a compliment to my heritage and that's what makes me different and beautiful to some. Because not many people have it, thus I am a minority in that respect and people find it alluring because of that and some dislike it. Cest la vie... And I can tell you from experience most that have been attracted to me are NOT fair skinned, blonde haired, blue eyed men.
I think there is a thread in here on traditions that I saw and that I think is a must read as well.
Just lighten up and enjoy the fact that others find you attractive without reading too much into it, its a compliment Peace

[multisport (deleted)]

jezpur wrote: summerstorm78 wrote: `I find this thread disturbing if not insulting. I've read each and every post here to date, and have found it real hard not to say anything, but enough is enough. For those of you who say "it's in the eye of the beholder" thank you for your realistic views. This is true of any person where attractivness is concerned NOT just a certain ethnic or cultural background.

To be perfectly honest, if i were a man (Native or in general) reading this I'd be making a list of all the unrealistic ppl here who view Natives as nothing more than a grade A prime cut of meat. Gentlemen, if you're into dinner & a movie (most likely hollywood version!) I'd say you've found your target group!

For the most part, these views are the result of (yes!) stereotypes and unrealistic protrayals of our Native men/women. If you are really that interested, why not educate yourself? Do some research and make damn sure you're reading authentic material, not some hollywood version of damsel in distress.

Natives face racism and are snubbed even to this day, and there are only a handful of "outsiders" (so to speak) that appreciate their part in our history. Oppression is still a very real thing even today. The dignity of these ppl DEMAND respect. All I am saying is if you are going to be a part of that open-minded group, do so for the right reasons!





I have to agree with summerstorm on alot of things she said and she is correct. Learning all about someone you are or may be attracted to is very important. Sorry in advance for the rambling but I just think it's a shame that people stay so divided and lack understanding on many levels. You started out with a blog on what makes a native man sexy and it has become a drama filled saga. But I also think like with any nationality, say for example Italian men or women if there was a blog on that I am sure we could all tastefully mention what we like about them and could be anything from, olive skin to great food, accent, or whatever... Doesn't mean I am hunting for a piece of meat ;p or looking to score, sometimes it just nice to meet and appreciate others physically, and experience different backgrounds and gain knowledge from another's perspective or if you feel your upbringing is similar. And there's nothing wrong with either by the way! Everything about each nationality as a whole is what makes you different, and attractive. That is what makes us all unique.
Most people seem to be physically attracted to what is opposite them. And yes looks aren't everything. But we are all human and yes it has something to do with it, lol. I don't think this topic was to find out who want rights to live on a reservation or how poor someone is or isn't. It really should be to celebrate peoples differences and being that they may be similar or different to you is what you think is attractive. If someone complimented me on my Irish red hair and light skin I wouldn't take that as an insult. I take it as a compliment to my heritage and that's what makes me different and beautiful to some. Because not many people have it, thus I am a minority in that respect and people find it alluring because of that and some dislike it. Cest la vie... And I can tell you from experience most that have been attracted to me are NOT fair skinned, blonde haired, blue eyed men.
I think there is a thread in here on traditions that I saw and that I think is a must read as well.
Just lighten up and enjoy the fact that others find you attractive without reading too much into it, its a compliment Peace

My late famous Great Great Grandfather said it best, "We are all Natives of Mother Earth", " We all have a culture and identity from where we come from", "We are all in one big house "our Mother Earth" and "Under one roof, the sky"! And we share our Mother Earth with the animals! Kenneth (Great Great Grandson of Blue Robe) My Native Name respectfully inherited by ceremony. Rodney King said "Can we all get along"? Martin Luther King said, "I have a Dream"!

[shewolfe (deleted)]

I think native american men are absoulutely breath taking one phsyicall attribute i seem to love (this is with men in general) the long beautifal hair

[gsmile4u]

runningwolf wrote: hate to break it to you ladies but it has nothing to do with your nationalitly. and yeah i am 6'4" but i know a lot more short natives than tall ones. i think the movies and trashy romance novels have led everyone to believe all natives are mysterious and romantic and all that crap. the truth is yes we have a different culture and different features but we are still human. and like any culture some of us are good some are bad, some are attractive some arent, and some follow the old ways and some are more white than the whites. quit putting stereotypes on people and enjoy your life and fall in love with who ever makes you happy.



Nicely stated.

[jacobi]

I think its a stereotype thing honestly. Its like saying all black men are going to abandon their familys and smoke weed. I prefer Native men not only because I am part of the culture but also because they share the same views and religious backing as I do (most of the time). I enjoy the few times I've been on the reservation, and I was raised poor so the poverty doesn't bother me. I completely understand how hard it is to live with so many restrictions after my hard background as well. I find them attractive because they are rich in culture and family ties. To marry or date a man of the Tribe is to date the whole tribe. You must understand, accept, and respect their knowledge, ways of thinking, and culture before attempting to invade on their family. Its a respect thing to me honestly. Though the twilight movies kinda ruined a lot of peoples views thinking that all Native men are tall, muscular. with long hair and adorable smiles. Yeah no, I know more short men then tall and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.