I have a question for the Native Women

[rblyl (deleted)]

Weird seeing that you asked previously how she dealt with wondering how victims deal with such thing..then suddenly you were too? You know this is just too much. When you posted before you spoke graphically about female genitalia, mutilations ect and seemed to be a very graphic fixation..(which i believe have been deleted off the forum?)now here we go again and such. Nice backhanded way you go to insult Zoupi as well with your 'story' about the blue eyed Frenchman..NOT!

WARNING WOMEN!! THIS MAY VERY WELL BE A MAN, POORLY POSING AS A WOMAN AND GETTING OFF ON YOUR STORIES OF RAPE! PLEASE WATCH WHAT YOU REVEAL HERE!!PLEASE!

[beautybird]

`Rblyl,
I can prove that I'm a real woman. That won't be a problem because I have people who will back me up like Brian, Carla, and Dan. You can get indicted for perjury if we are in court! You won't win this thing. It will only make you look bad to others.

Unfortunately for you, the information about female genital mutilation was published in Washington Post and in military.com website. This is NO joke here. If you don't like it, then don't read it. It's as simple as that.

[kaskiyeh (deleted)]

`This is not a court, or at least the last time I looked it wasn't... If we wanted to read these articles that you are so fascinated with I am sure we have the means to go seek them out.So you keep taking applications preferably with photo's so you can get your mind occupied with other things besides genital mutilation, and what even else that seems to trip your trigger..

[harmony68 (deleted)]

`thank you Zoupi, Rbl and Kaskiyeh. its not good to generalize anything. everything happens everywhere to all types of people. this is a sad subject and there is no need for graphic details. people with PTSD, can be affects way too much!

[rblyl (deleted)]

`..and I think you would know better than just about anyone here on that Harmony, being your heart is in to help those in these sad situations..and you are very right on..and you take care:)

[kaskiyeh (deleted)]

harmony68 wrote: `thank you Zoupi, Rbl and Kaskiyeh. its not good to generalize anything. everything happens everywhere to all types of people. this is a sad subject and there is no need for graphic details. people with PTSD, can be affects way too much!

You are welcome harmony, I myself have been through a horrific childhood and to see someone come in here and just want details about some ones personal trauma just irritates me to know end.Some things are not meant to be put out in a dating site for all the world to see.

WE WITH PTSD DEAL WITH LIFE DIFFERENTLY, BUT YOU BB KEEP STICKING YOUR HAND IN A HORNETS NEST AND YOU WILL BE STUNG GUARANTEED..

[harmony68 (deleted)]

`thank you ladies... this touches my heart so much - you all be well too

[trubblemaka (deleted)]

`mine too

[kaskiyeh (deleted)]

Your eyes are glistening, stinging from your crying.
And your little arms are reaching out for me.
I can not move from hell till I find you.
I can not mend my heart till you're at peace.
I am the only one who cares and can free you.
I am your only key to put your shame behind.
If my arms were only long enough to reach you,
then maybe peace and love is what we'd find.
I want to die when I envision your tormenting
I want to kill the bastards who used your innocence.
I want to hide you in my arms and calm your cries.
I will keep on searching till I have you with me and soon we both will see that the pain doesn't have to take us over and little child, may be then we'll be set free...

[harmony68 (deleted)]

`oh kaskiyeh that is beautiful. i so wish you find this child and comforted thank you for sharing with us.

much love~

[born2bemild (deleted)]

`thats right K - you gotta heal the child, and let her know shes safe with you.

[kaskiyeh (deleted)]

`I wrote this and many others a long time ago when I was stuck in a very dark place.. We who have suffered horrific abuse tend to be slightly different.Some of us never make it out of that dark place..

[harmony68 (deleted)]

`and often times these women are those who are much sensitive to the severity of it all when it is happening in front of us to someone else. i as a volunteer can only offer resources, i cannot offer my personal suggestions. as each woman is her own person and i was in that position at one point and did not do anything until i couldnt take it any longer. it took me many many years to heal and am finally at a place where i feel safe. sorry to say i would probably hurt someone horribly if they tried to hurt me or aloved one. which is why i DO NOT have a gun and instead have a big stick

[zoupi]

"The big pains are dumb"
Only by moments a piece of the truth appears...

I have never met somebody deeply hurted and spoiled "bark" against the wind.

Well enough terrible things daily happens around us which affect those of us not only focused on themselves that I will certainly not waste my time with "sensational articles" some seems to delight with.

By simple respect for the initial post I find more decent to keep silent here.
(Just here )

[lizarashi]

tsalagi2 wrote: The last Native man I dated for a while used to make remarks all the times about me reactingly emotionally about things. I have been assaulted and have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. After years of counseling it is managable. He remarked "oh you poor thing, wah wah wah" I was stunned and wondered after he said "We are not bothered by such things we give them over to the spirits." That sounds really cool but I'd still want the man in my life to hold me, squeeze my hand and tell me it will get better, it will be alright and not be made fun of for feeling that way. Do you not want those same things?


was he drunk when he said this? lol