A possible misunderstanding in my use of the word "suck

[rebelyell09 (deleted)]

To my foreign friends (as well as some who I guess dont get out of the house much here) as you noticed I wrote a post today in which I said that "white people 'suck'". That use of the term "suck" had nothing to do with putting DOWN white people what so ever..in fact, it can be seen as a compliment as it is referring to Fellacio and Cunnilligus (see Wikipedia if you are unsure about the definition of these two words.) That there seems to be talk of white people being rather comfortable with this may make them desireable is ALL I meant by that post and in no way a slang put down.

I hope this clears up any misunderstanding about this.

Happy Valentines Day.

[johnmarlon (deleted)]

I can say white people suck and mean it since I can say it knowing in my own head that I'm not emphasizing each and every person. That I know, I am referring to the white culture and values as a whole in my own view, unlike some who are reliant upon defined meaning straight from the dictionary. Others can take it as they wish. Meaning is highly depending on knowing a person in some cultural environments. Yes, I wouldn't say that in public or towards anyone but this is the internet and getting personally offended isn't really necessary here; although, it can be interesting sometimes since words are the primary source of understanding here.

I thought I'd mention that since I looked at the post your referring to and didn't quite understand anything lol. Thought I'd post my thoughts on those words in use..lol. I'm exposed to and used to such word usage in more extreme forms..

[rebelyell09 (deleted)]

`Hey Johnmarlon, maybe it is good for you that you didn't understand anything in that post...and as far as "this is the internet and getting personally offended isn't really necessary here", huh- if only that WERE the case wouldn't it make it a slightly (?) different forum..ha!

But I guess I am kind of confused here. Were you saying "white people suck"?

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I guess I should explain my question here...

I am asking because I used an 'oral' descriptive to attempt to explain how, in spite of the negativity toward white people by those of other races, they still wind up hooking up with "white people" so I was wondering if you were using that reference..or if you meant "white people suck?" as in "this group of people over there, they really suck!"

This is a difficult one for me because I am a mix of 3 "races" that are not thought too highly of..except Native American (Semetic, and White being the others), now becoming a very desirable race to be (in a lot of parts of the country..except this one still) thanks to Paul Revere and the Raiders and Hollywood stereotypes, I have seen people that could light up a room with thier skin and hair and still be Native. But to each thier own! What I am thinking here though is that "white" is becoming an unfavorable adjective to describe a group of people, as in an "other" (something undesirable compared to "we")..not too different from another term I dare don't spell out here that use to regularly describe African Americans at one time, and is now a quite vulgar word. See???? In order to hate any group it is important to dehumanize them first and get others desensitized (sp) to thier suffering as being ones who can't really feel or suffer because they are not really human..not quite able to "feel" as the rest of "us" can? 64 or 65 years ago a grown man was able to look at a 5 year old in the eyes and bash his head because the government at the time had been very successful in turning his head into believeing that child was not fully human, but an inhuman enemy and the name of his people were despised. Lots of examples like that unfortunately in many cultures... but less than 2 months ago I stood on the side of a road with a man who held the broken body of his dead son in his own coat and the pain on his face and suffering is etched in my brain for life..and he was "white".
Suffering is horrible...irregardless of who it is suffering.

Not to get all serious here guys, I am just tired of all this. Bodies are just a gift given to us for a short time. Culture...is something else. Just a warning I suppose to not become what one hates (and people do seem to become what they hate)

Happy Valentines Day

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`"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change.... the courage to change the things I can.... and the wisdom to know the difference......

[hekawi (deleted)]

`I DON'T HATE WHITES I HATE EVERYONE

[rebelyell09 (deleted)]

`I don't even care anymore!......... again.

I am, done with this


Sacred mushroom

[straighteyes (deleted)]

`Hello Iowa - flame, you know I am always able to struggle into every hole of the english language..lol .. but this one I got very clear:

"Even sucking people like sucking or to be sucked"!

Perfect?????

[rebelyell09 (deleted)]

` Perfect Straighteyes..

Sorry about the "rant" here,

I know sometimes I just suck.

[straighteyes (deleted)]

`everybody has his "sucking" parts. Some try to put gold on it and have to find out that it melts when they go to hell!!!

[rebelyell09 (deleted)]

`uuhhh...hmmmm well, I am just trying to wrap my mind around that visual but it is difficult for me when I try to think too hard.

But I think Gene Simmons tried that back in the 1970's, wasn't it??

[rebelyell09 (deleted)]

`Oh!! nevermind..I am sorry Straighteyes! Before I cause anymore confusion here ..I think you are talking about a metaphor pertaining to history?

And what I was thinking of was with plaster and not gold.

gee..I think I should get some more sleep.

[zoupi]

`Rebel you made me smile in good way one more time !

We have laugh and joke together about many stereotypes and the one of the "sucking white" is one of them we can also laugh about without trubble ha ! ha !

All depend of the part of dream we want to keep inside our readers minds

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`well Zoupie you know we can all meet over in our other spot...