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[merinass (deleted)]

firesong wrote: `rosesandwine, I can understand why you question that people want to see your picture, however lets face it many people here are looking for a mate,
and its not very realistic to expect someone to risk dissipointment when they think they found mr. or mrs. right.
I would hate to think that I am shallow for this statement but truth is truth
and physical attraction is vital to all living beings. even in the animal world.
And one persons beauty may shine in a different light than another, so be bold and confident .

I don't think you are shallow at all. Now personally I just like to see who I am chatting with..but if I am interested, yes a pic has to be given and for the very reasons you mentioned. Now I don't think we are all looking for Adonis or Aphordite..but you know it isn't realistic to think others should fall for someone that they cannot even see their face. Truth be told if I cannot see you then what you become is a nameless, faceless person behind words. I may like you..but I don't develop any deeper connection with you. If you won't at least send me a pic after I have given you my email address..I really have to wonder if you are what you say you are.

[riverotter]

It seems that most of the people are young on this site. Being young you look for the flash. By this I mean. You want a handsom dude or a beautiful face. But beauty and the flash fade. I believe that if you are attracted to the expressions of the soul, it is more real. For ones words reveal the inner self that does not change. If the face fades what will you do? If you accept the soul then you will never be disappointed. If a persons words whispered to you in the dark, excites you, do you care what they look like?

Your expectations are limitations, or the depths of shallowness. Do you want a trophy or happiness?