GREENCARD MARRIAGES ?

[straighteyes (deleted)]

I have to agree..rebel and blackf.girl, my english is bad, I am just able to get along, but when I read the sentences of little moccassins I thought: well, you just understand nothing at all ..what does she want???? ok, now I know it, but I have to agree she was able to mix up my braincells..but on the other hand I have to say, I think that she never had the intension to play with marbels..and that this question might have been a serious one.. laughing about the own s--- you create is one thing, laughing about other people another.. it is a serious question and I am a serious person too, but she just made my eyes popp out off my head..

[blackfootedgirl]

rebelyell08 wrote: `If you had the choice would you walk into a place where the people were laughing and smiling or where all looked serious and forlorn? ...It isn't a sign of a lack of intelligence to find the humor in something. At any rate!..I will respect your space here and take my marbles and go home.

Peace





You can answer a serious question and still put humor in it, this forum was put together to get people to think , it may have validated the thoughts that someone was feeling or thinking that might have been in the same situation this forum was addressing. There is enough forums where people can go to cut loose if they wish and it is clear which ones those are..

Blackfootedgirl

[blackfootedgirl]

straighteyes wrote: I have to agree..rebel and blackf.girl, my english is bad, I am just able to get along, but when I read the sentences of little moccassins I thought: well, you just understand nothing at all ..what does she want???? ok, now I know it, but I have to agree she was able to mix up my braincells..but on the other hand I have to say, I think that she never had the intension to play with marbels..and that this question might have been a serious one.. laughing about the own sh*t you create is one thing, laughing about other people another.. it is a serious question and I am a serious person too, but she just made my eyes popp out off my head..



There is a time and place for everything. I can't understand how hard it is to think about the question that is put before a person and answer it with respect to the author, I am not talking about my self only, when I answer other Authors forum question I try to answer from experience or knowledge I have gathered from other reputable sources while staying on topic and trying to be respectful to the author as well as to others who might come across my writing.
There are plenty of Forums where people can go to cut up and have fun. Even though this question was serious in nature there can still be humor in an answer from a persons experience with the subject matter and stay on topic.

blackfootedgirl

[littlemoccasins_PREV (deleted)]

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my englsh bad not her to be lagh at yos is mean evil cadela

[littlemoccasins_PREV (deleted)]

rebelyell08 wrote: `If you had the choice would you walk into a place where the people were laughing and smiling or where all looked serious and forlorn? ...It isn't a sign of a lack of intelligence to find the humor in something. At any rate!..I will respect your space here and take my marbles and go home.

Peace



Ei rebelyell que você esqueceu-sa bola

[littlemoccasins_PREV (deleted)]

`Parece a mim esta menina de blackfooted quer conversar para baixo às pessoas e controle o que nós dizemos. Eu não posso falar sua linguagem mas eu não sou estúpido. Pensei que isto era um local que data não em algum lugar trazer estrangeiro sobre casar nos cidadão. Nunca pense que eu sou estúpido!!!

[blackfootedgirl]

littlemoccasins wrote: `Parece a mim esta menina de blackfooted quer conversar para baixo às pessoas e controle o que nós dizemos. Eu não posso falar sua linguagem mas eu não sou estúpido. Pensei que isto era um local que data não em algum lugar trazer estrangeiro sobre casar nos cidadão. Nunca pense que eu sou estúpido!!!



you were not being laughed at regarding your English skills, you were not following the posting guidelines and and still are not , name calling is not allowed with in the forum in response to your previous post in this forum.

blackfootedgirl

[blackfootedgirl]

`Here is a response I received privately, I think it touches on heartfelt feelings that one would not think to put down on paper......


"here is my take on greencard marriage...
Would I wonder if they truly loved me or if they were using me to obtain citizenship? That is a good question. Sometimes love does make one blind to the flaws of your loved one; but, if it is true love, wouldn't it be felt by the person? Even if at the end of the two years and they abandoned you, you still have the memory of that shared love. Even if it were only a short period...you will have loved and hopefully given them the help that they may have needed. I am an optimistic person and may have a skewed view on this issue for that reason. But love is beautiful even if it is lost. It does not lessen the hurt when love is not returned or when you are used for personal gain." Anonymous.

A beautiful response . We never know how long a relationship will last anyway .

[littlemoccasins_PREV (deleted)]

`Eu não chamo qualquer um names. Trata-me gostar de eu sou estúpido porque eu não sei sua linguagem! Você conversa para baixo a mim. Isto é um local ridículo de conexão quem são contar qualquer um permanecer em tema??

jus cuz I no speaka you words not manke me estúpido

[littlemoccasins_PREV (deleted)]

blackfootedgirl wrote: littlemoccasins wrote: `Parece a mim esta menina de blackfooted quer conversar para baixo às pessoas e controle o que nós dizemos. Eu não posso falar sua linguagem mas eu não sou estúpido. Pensei que isto era um local que data não em algum lugar trazer estrangeiro sobre casar nos cidadão. Nunca pense que eu sou estúpido!!!



you were not being laughed at regarding your English skills, you were not following the posting guidelines and and still are not , name calling is not allowed with in the forum in response to your previous post in this forum.

blackfootedgirl P no call nams you mean peopee

[straighteyes (deleted)]

`little mokassins, I don´t think that anybody had the intention to laugh about you or to hurt you. It might have been the case of being uncertain about the situation because they did not understand you. I did not understand you and I have to say you gave me a hard time. That does not mean that I disrespect you. Making mistakes belong to humen nature just as being insensitive sometimes.
straighteyes

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`This is ridiculous to be told what is serious and what is not in life..it IS a matter of perspective! How many people have you been with as they took thier last breath on this earth???Myself, I dont have enough fingers and toes to count!!Or first to arrive for a mother who just walked in and found thier child a victim of SIDS? Believe me you wont forget those screams for a long time to come when all else is quiet! Greencard marriages..I will answer this..how about having the "beloved" do the WORK to get thier OWN citizenship BEFORE you marry them??! Yeah it takes a long time..but hey? marriage is forever, I guess, right?? The terrible things happening to people in our own back yards and I get chastized TWICE here for not taking this seriously.

[straighteyes (deleted)]

`Rebelyell, I never wanted to critizise you I got my own slap in the face while trying to explain what happened to me while I read and tried to understand. And I don´t want to talk about this any more, I worked with children and women for 25 years there is no need to fight about trivial things like what has been going on. And I have to agree..every country has his own dark blackground..and I prefer working for the things I want to reach in my life. But everybody is different and has to do what they might feel inside. Little moccasins is going her way ! Blackfootedgirl is going her way and you are going yours.No reason to fight about or playing the guardian for other people. I hope this is the end now ...
straighteyes

[rebelyell08_PREV (deleted)]

`It is the end..not one word was directed at you. We are individuals and have our own way of communicating and seeing the world. No one can get people to fit in a box comfortably.

[(deleted)]

`I have been reading this post about green card marriages and yes they need to come over here without looking for someone to marry and get in country, but the worst thing is to be told to "Stay on Topic" like we are some bumbling idiots and our teacher has to keep us in line.

When did this native passions become anything else but what it is?

Wow if I want to have my hands slapped because I don't stay inside the rules and regulation set down by someone who is so condescending in her post to say "stay on topic" chit I would go to back to the old school where if the teacher didn't like your answers you could and would get the yard stick across the hand.

Rebel you go on and keep being who you are and not conform to be like everyone else being told what to say and how to say it. I like your spirit refusing to stay in the box ha ha!
Just a thought maybe they need to get out of their box and get a new box and enjoy this site for what it is..Life is too hard to be worry about being reprimanded every time we answer a post because we did not "Stay on Topic"..

Little moccasins I understood every word you said and if the other two did not well that's there loss.

N.W.A.A.