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You thought of her as a friend and ally, but by resorting to underhanded tactics that made you look bad, backstabbing became the only word to define her actions. Backstabbing friends are a part of life, and the act itself happens to nearly everyone at some point in life. The betrayal of a trusted so called friend inflicts pain and hurt. How do you deal with low-blow deceptive attacks? Learn the whys and hows of backstabbing friends and decide if saving the friendship is worth the effort.(NOT)
People who back stab tend to be insecure. Describe a backstabber: “vindictive, revengeful, deceitful, conniving, resentful, and angry. Also passive-aggressive behavior as another trait of the backstabbing friend .
Behaving like your best friend with smiles, a helpful attitude, and promises of loyalty and trustworthiness, the backstabber waits for the right moment and then turns on you with a vengeance. The backstabbers ways are manipulative as she uses low-ball tactics that make you appear to be a liar, a thief or someone not to be trusted.
Why People Back stab
Reasons why people back stab others range from cowardice to a need for power. The sole purpose of backstabbing is gaining the upper hand and gain power. Backstabbing is not limited to one individual or another.
So in a nut shell there will always be someone that is jealous of you and will do anything to undermine your credibility, so choose your friends wisely and beware of anyone that wants to know too much..
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`I dont even know what to say, can say, as I feel I am already close to getting deleted.
All I have to say is..."fluff"
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`Fluff is good..
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I'm not a big fan of fluff, but it does seem to be an inevitable part of life, along with dust and pet hair. The worst is when you leave a tissue or piece of paper in your pocket, and it goes through the wash and gets stuck all over your dark colours.
Am I talking FLUFF?
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`what I am talking about is about worth that much.
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`Fluff can be just about whatever you want it to be.. But fluff we can live without doesn't have any useful role in the circle of life..
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`I think if you made it to the age of twelve you had had this happen. It is a part of life unfortunately. The flip side though is that while you do have those out there whose insecurities run amock..there are those who don't let that happen.
Rule of life basically..treat others with the same respect ( if you know what that is) that you want for yourself and you won't regret it.
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`Over...done.
We all had it happen and done it too. Thank god it is 2008 and not 1988 as far as I am concerned.
I do agree with your post Marinass..very nice. Moving on.
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`no one told me it was 2008!!! I thought it was 1967
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`But if it was before September I would not be here! blahhhhhhhh
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`1967...I wasn't even born. HEHE
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merinass
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rebelyell08 wrote: `Over...done.
We all had it happen and done it too. Thank god it is 2008 and not 1988 as far as I am concerned.
I do agree with your post Marinass..very nice. Moving on.
1988..OMG my HAIR!!!!
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`ha ha ha ha ha!!!Marinass you are so funny!!
Wanna go cruise around in our parachute pants listening to Poison with a keg of beer in the backseat??ha!!!I'll spring for the Aquanet!
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rebelyell08 wrote: `ha ha ha ha ha!!!Marinass you are so funny!!
Wanna go cruise around in our parachute pants listening to Poison with a keg of beer in the backseat??ha!!!I'll spring for the Aquanet!
Now THATS a date! You get the keg, I'll get the Matilda Bay wine coolers..chicks gotta have the wine coolers
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`you bet! Dont forget to cake on the eyeliner! we'll be naked with out it.
You crack me up!!
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