.."more than wolves..."

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

Continuation of "oh my g**d" with a twist..what does this statement mean to you??..I think of the definition of seduction that I wrote in the "oh my g**d".......with the clothes on. Any thoughts on this...

[ravenwoman_PREV (deleted)]

`going back to read that post again so I can respond

[ravenwoman_PREV (deleted)]

`Ok... I believe in caution... not showing one's hand so to speak. I believe in revealing one's self carefully... tho I am often guilty of giving away too much too fast... opening my heart when it is not safe.... I think in a way... seduction is a two way street... unless I am willing to BE seduced no one in this world can do it... in seduction one must be willing to be seduced for it to happen.. but that is my own personal take on it

[ravenwoman_PREV (deleted)]

`oh yes... more than once

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

`You are right Ravenwoman..on the same token we are also accountable for our intentions toward others. You know

[ravenwoman_PREV (deleted)]

`yes... I think I am gullible because I dont play headgames... I just am what I am so I dont expect others to have hidden agendas.. and THAT is where I get into trouble

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

`Oh Goodness how I relate!! I do assume that because I do mean the words I say and do try to choose them carefully ..that thats just how everyone is. If you don't OWN your words what do you have? Just hollow I suppose. And all we have here is our words.

[ravenwoman_PREV (deleted)]

`yes... and lately I am really having to reevaluate my words

[plainsgirl_PREV (deleted)]

`I think I need to evaluate everything,hon...it sure seems like me and some of the women on this stie seem to have a lot in common......ya know what I mean jellybean????

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`I've been reading this topic, and I have to say I feel the same way you both feel. I tend towards trusting people too much myself. I just have this belief that people for the most part are basicly good. THat I can trust people with my heart, feelings, as well as what's truley inside, but time and again, my trust is broken. I've been called gullible myself, though only by that abusive boyfriend I mentioned in the Oh my god topic. He always used to say he had a bridge for me to buy. I always felt and thought that this remark was certainly not called for. The thing is with him he was always telling stories always makeing things up and said it all with such seriousness I thought he was telling the truth. It got to the point I didn't know when he was telling the truth or simply telling stories to make me look foolish. I got to a point where I started to not beleive what he'd say, then he'd get all defensive. It really goes back to what you and Ravenwoman have been saying as far as picking your words carefully, and being open and honest. I've always been open and honest, but it seems like all most want to do is play these childish games with people's minds and hearts, just string a person along with no serious intent other than to waste the time of everyone involved. It's become some sort of ghoulisgh blood sport in a lot of ways. I'm not saying these things out of bitterness or fridgedness as I'm not the only one who's voiceing thses sorts of feelings. Men as well as woman are feeling the same way. I just want to know what happened to the respect we all deserve???

[plainsgirl01_PREV (deleted)]

`This really touched me because of the way you express it is in the freshest way I've seen from someone who has been "burned". You know, my personal feeling on that, for what it's worth- is that is why a gentle heart should be so treasured, Horses. Because the "blood-thirsty" hearts are truly a dime a dozen.

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`THank you, it's good to hear that. Amen to that Plains girl. Blood thirsty heartts unfortunately are a dime a dozen and those gentle hearts are sadly few and far between.

[plainsgirl01_PREV (deleted)]

`Far too few...and way too far, Sweetie